To The Woman Who Was Recklessly Chased

It’s okay.

Naaah-no, it’s not, but it will surely be okay.

A boy cannot realize how he lowered a woman’s self-esteem, how she can’t throw herself to sleep every night thinking what is it that she did wrong, or wakes her up 3 in the morning and cry, what is it that she doesn't have, what is it that she can’t give, that she was a lesser option, and how difficult it is to eat? And she abruptly lost weight huh.

The boy may not realize how he turned her daydreams into mess, and she was left patching it. I know it is difficult to let go with your ‘conversation’ full of promises, broken promises but she did, let go.

The boy, yes a boy, not a man, broke the tale and he’s making new one for himself.

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So woman, I think you were in the wrong story. No one can say a story is wrong unless the people themselves wronged it. Leave if you find yourself in the wrong position. No one can produce a good thing out of something bad no matter how beautiful the intentions might appear to be. That’s a fact.

Things don’t make us, they reveal us, the real us. You get it?

He can break your heart, but he can never break your soul. He can trick you, but he can never trick himself.

Don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid if everyone gets to move forward and you were left still hurt. Sadness is a gift. It is an edge, it stretches your heart, maybe it breaks it but it strengthens you, but we call that a PROGRESS. A broken bone is stronger when it heals, as Maxwell said.

The Lord will not pick up those broken pieces of your heart, but He promised to give you a new heart, that one which you can only share but NEVER GIVE to a “man”.

No one can define your worth because like him, his worth is not found on the world’s standard, that’s why you can’t be your own witness in the court. Invalid it is. Therefore our worth is found in the Creator’s perspective.

The anxiety is given. There is literally a pain in the chest, right? But that’s alright, use them to intensify your willpower to move forward.

Now, I want you to stop from there. Stop and leave. Go back to the track, that’s right, that one, that’s it.

The moral is, one will fail you, you will fail that one, they will fail you, and eventually all the people you love will fail you, that’s the sad reality, but on the other side, we can still find security. There is a Person whose affection for us never wavers.

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I read a book that says, “Life isn’t about me.” Too hard to believe, how can it not be about you if that’s your life. Later on I realized, why it should not be about me. When life is about you, you are focused with yourself, your own achievement, your own happiness and even your own problems, now the latter actually paralyzes us to the point of self-destruction. You meditated so much of yourself that is full of negativity because we’re infected with a disease called sin.

As John C. Maxwell said, the most important person you’ll ever talk is yourself.

Then I have concluded, that when God said, that our life is not about us, but about Jesus, I knew then why.

Why? Because when we look at God, He shows us how He sees us, and His perspective is the only picture that is accepted because it’s the truth. He shows us how He loves us as if we’re the only one in the world. He shows us a love that is difficult to contain. He shows us promises that we can take hold of. 

He shows us justice.

He shows us forever.

lady diana