Another Great Love

I needed to write about this. Because I’m so fed up with all the pang-iinis with us.

Sinong bang nagsabing pag ang pagmamahal ay in the zone of friendship mas mababang klase ng pagmamahal yun?

I believe friendship is a great kind of love, it is not a lesser version of your romantic love which every hopeless romantic hopes for.

Hindi yung “friends LANG kami” but it is “good friends kami.”

Ang pinagkaiba lang namin sa ibang magkaibigan ay, babae ako at lalaki sya. But then, pareho na lahat. Kung kayo magbestfriend na parehong babae, nagchichismisan everyday, well nagchichismisan din kami.

Kung nagtutulungan kayong magshopping, abay ganun din kami.

Kung sa ibang tao, hindi nagwowork ang girl-boy bestfriends, sa amin magwowork. Sa amin lang magwowork yun.

Hindi na talaga ako natutuwa pag iniinis kame, naiilang na kase ako which is a mechanism in my system that I have no control of, it results to my most quiet version of me, worse version of me, it gives me anxiety which leads to DISAFFECTION, ISOLATION AND UNFRIENDLINESS, then magiging cold nako...pero sige I can be nicer =)

Pero ang point ko lang ay, ang pagkakaibigan ay hindi mababang bersyon ng pagmamahal. In fact, it is a great love. Madaming kalokohan. Madaming damayan.

Sa friendship daw kase walang breakup, hindi totoo. Meron, meron ngang quarrels and it is one of my most feared things in life, lose a friend.

May mga lalaking binoboyfriend, at may mga lalaking binibestfriend. May mga babaeng ginigirlfriend, meron din binibestfriend.

PS

Don’t make him trigger some emotions. Please.